Probably for at least next 20 years or so I wont be able to complain, that my life is boring. The three little monkeys (my kids 😀 ) in my household would not allow me this! So much happiness, but also plenty of headache! Life was easy when I only had one daughter, and it has become very colourful after having my other two.
There is a tricky bit when it comes to my children relationship. Obviously, Harry is 5 months old only, so I can only predict yet of what kind of personality he is going to have later. But I can definitely already see some bits and pieces watching the three of them.
Luka (my 12 years old daughter) and Daniella (3 years old) are both very competitive. They fight over their toys, chocolate, TV programs, even Harry’s attention! If Daniella sees Luka talking to Harry or rocking him, she immediately wants to take over and in case ‘princess’ doesn’t get what she wants, she then shows everyone how loud she can be (by screaming). And, believe me, she can be loud…
Luka on the other side, often forgets, that she is 9 years older than Daniella and is always desperate to prove her point. Sometimes it really drives me crazy, I then have no choice, but show them how loud I can be, ha ha! 😀
Not all days are bad days though. Luka and Daniella can play together very nicely, when they want to. Sometimes they both put their dresses on and dance for hours. They seem to have the same taste in music – Daniella knows all Luka’s songs! It’s really lovely watching them get along.
If Luka goes to the shop, she never forgets to buy sweeties for Daniella and this is surely Daniella’s soft spot! Somehow magically she then becomes the friendliest and cutest little girl in the whole world!
My both daughters however are extremely loving towards their little brother Harry. I hope it wont ever change. Daniella is like a different girl, when it comes to her brother. No jealousy- no matter if I cuddle him or kiss him, she is always understanding and caring herself. Daniella always gives Harry a dummy, when he cries, without me asking, brings him toys and even shows him her YouTube videos (he does look quite interested 😀 ).
Same with Luka, when it comes to Harry. She keeps on saying how cute he is, love talking to him, making him laugh. Always asks me to hold Harry on her arms. It will be interesting to watch them all grow and to compare how relationship changes. I hope they will have a strong bond with each other.